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MyStory: God says NO

But I still think about girls

I was brought up by parents who feared God. I learned by heart the scriptures about not having sex before marriage. I thought girls were an evil temptation. But that didn’t stop me from thinking about them!

My friends all thought being with lots of girls was okay. They told me how good it had felt to have sex. They even told me that I should practice. When I refused, they lied to girls and told them I couldn’t have sex.

I wanted to prove them wrong, so I slept with a girl.

Afterwards, I felt sure God must be angry with me. And because no one had taught me about safer sex, I didn’t use a condom.

“Are you crazy?” the guys said. I hadn't known that she could fall pregnant or that I could catch a sexually transmitted infection. I wish my parents had taught me more. I was so lucky that she didn’t fall pregnant.

Fitting in with your friends feel important at time. But it is more important to make good choices. Use a male or female condom every time you have sex, then your chances of regrets are lower.

This story was written by a Tune Me community member.


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Don't be fooled by those who say such things, for "bad company corrupts good character." My brother I decided to start with this verse because you need it even now. You learnt a lesson that you should pass it on to the next generation. Give thanks to God and repent for what you did and move on with Him, put your trust in him His ways so that you do not fall into such traps again. Be Blessed, Shalom.

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It's gud that you now have som knowledge nd you'll never make the same mistake in future nd that you'll teach you children even more coz of your experience

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